About ADHD Singles: Dating Made for Minds Like Yours
A warm, welcoming place to date with ADHD, and to meet the people who love the way you think.
To help our members find love by connecting them with like-minded singles, with respect and honesty at the centre of everything we do.
ADHD Singles is for adults whose brains run at their own speed. Our members are people with ADHD, people who think they might have it, people who are autistic as well, and people who simply enjoy the company of someone with a busy, curious mind. Close to half of them are in Britain and over a third in America, and most are somewhere between their mid-thirties and mid-fifties: grown-ups who know their own minds and are ready to share them.
Why a dating site just for ADHD
On a general dating app, ADHD is something you have to find the right moment to explain, or hope nobody notices. Here it is understood from the start. That changes the first conversation: you can mention that you forgot to eat lunch because you were deep in a new hobby, or that you will reply properly tonight, and the person on the other end gets it. You get to spend the conversation finding out whether you actually like each other.
Everything you need to meet someone
Every member gets a profile, daily match suggestions nearby, private messaging, a friendly members' feed, and chat rooms and group chats for bigger plans. Classic membership covers your profile, browsing and daily matches. A paid membership lifts the daily message limit and adds a few extras; read how it works and see every plan on the pricing page.
Proper checks and real people behind the site
The site runs on HubPeople, a dating platform that hosts many specialist dating sites. HubPeople provides the membership system, payments, moderation and the support team, so the same checks and the same round-the-clock help sit behind this site as behind every other site on the platform. HubPeople is a member of the Online Dating and Discovery Association, an industry body for safety standards. The protections are set out on our safety page.
A kind and respectful community
Everyone who joins agrees to a few simple rules.
- Adults only. This site is strictly 18+.
- Genuine members only. Real people and real photos, and no selling goods or services to other members.
- Be kind. Treat others the way you would like to be treated, and if someone is not right for you, let them down gently.
- Be tolerant. Members come from every background. Racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism and hate speech are not allowed.
- Be safe. Keep first conversations on the site, never share bank details and never send money or gift cards.
- Be discreet. If you recognise a member in public, only approach them if they have said you may.
- Respect boundaries. If someone says no, move on, and ask before sharing images.
- Follow the law. Nothing illegal, in messages or in media.