Safety
Safe ADHD Dating: Protected From the First Hello
Your real name and address stay private, every member gets free ID checks, and real people are looking out for you around the clock.
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Protected at every step
Every protection below works for you from the day you join.
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ID Verification (Blue Tick)
Optional government ID verification with visible badge.
Why it matters Confirms users are genuine and reduces catfishing risk.
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Video Verification
Live video check with moderators to confirm identity without documents.
Why it matters Provides authenticity without sharing sensitive ID.
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Age Assurance
AI age estimation with additional checks where required.
Why it matters Prevents underage access and protects vulnerable users.
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Safe Usernames
Your real name and email are never shown publicly.
Why it matters Prevents stalking, unwanted contact, and being traced on social media.
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Location Privacy
Shows only your nearest town or city, never your exact address or live location.
Why it matters Keeps your home and real-world location private.
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Instant Blocking
Block any user immediately so they can no longer contact or see you.
Why it matters Puts you fully in control of who can interact with you.
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Easy Reporting Tools
Report users or content quickly from within the platform.
Why it matters Allows rapid action against abuse or inappropriate behaviour.
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User Rating System
Every user has a reputation score based on behaviour and feedback.
Why it matters Helps you quickly judge who is trustworthy before engaging.
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One-Click Feedback
Instantly upvote or downvote interactions with a single click.
Why it matters Encourages respectful behaviour and flags bad experiences early.
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Off-Platform Contact Alerts
Detects attempts to move conversations to external apps like WhatsApp.
Why it matters Warns you about common scam tactics.
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Behaviour Monitoring (AI)
Automatically detects unusual or suspicious activity patterns.
Why it matters Identifies scammers, bots, or harmful users early.
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Proactive Content Moderation
All images, videos, and text are screened on upload using AI and human review.
Why it matters Stops harmful or inappropriate content before it reaches users.
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Swift Takedown Policy
Rapid response to requests to remove unauthorised or harmful content.
Why it matters Minimises exposure and protects your privacy and rights.
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Explicit Image Protection
Potentially sensitive images are blurred with a warning before viewing.
Why it matters Prevents unwanted exposure to explicit content.
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24/7 Human Support
Real support team available via chat and messaging.
Why it matters Ensures fast help when you need it most.
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Safe Dating Guidance
Helpful tips and reminders built into the platform.
Why it matters Supports safer decisions both online and when meeting in person.
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Secure Infrastructure
Hosted on PCI-compliant cloud infrastructure with full SSL encryption (e.g. Microsoft Azure).
Why it matters Keeps your personal data, messages, and payments safe.
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Industry Safety Standards
Aligned with best practices through our involvement with the Online Dating and Discovery Association.
Why it matters Ensures we follow and help shape global safety standards.
Big heart, quick yes, eyes open
The things that make ADHD daters lovely to be around, the warmth, the enthusiasm, the willingness to say yes to an adventure, are the same things romance scammers look for. The pattern rarely changes: a profile that is intensely attentive very quickly, a reason they cannot video call, a push to move to WhatsApp or text, and then a problem only money can fix. Falling for it does not make anyone foolish. A few habits, set up once so you do not have to remember them in the moment, go a long way.
- Keep the conversation on the site until you have met. The site warns you when someone pushes to move to another app, and it is fair to ask why they are in such a hurry.
- Ask for a short video call before you meet. Anyone genuine will say yes.
- Never send money, gift cards or bank details to someone you have not met, whatever the story.
- Make a rule now that you never decide about money on the same day you are asked. A day's pause beats any urgency.
- Meet somewhere public and busy, and get yourself there and home. Put the address and time in your phone's calendar with an alert.
- Tell a friend where you are going and who with, and agree a time you will text them.
- If something feels off, leave. Then block and report the profile. The team reads every report.
Share your story at your own speed
Oversharing early is a very ADHD thing to do, and there is nothing wrong with an open book. Still, you do not owe anyone your diagnosis, your medication, your address or your finances on a first date. Someone worth knowing will be glad to wait. Our guide, Is ADHD Singles legit?, explains what happens behind the scenes to keep fake profiles off the site.
What members ask about safety
Can other members see my real name?
No. Members see your username. Your real name and email are never shown, and your location shows only your nearest town or city.
Are members verified?
Any member can be, at no cost, and a badge shows who is. Verification is optional, so look for the badge. Photos, videos and text are screened by software and by people as they are uploaded.
How do I report someone?
Use the report option on their profile or in your messages. Blocking them stops them contacting or seeing you straight away.
Someone asked me for money. What should I do?
Do not send it, stop replying and report the profile. Asking a match for money is one of the clearest signs of a scam.
Help is always a message away
Real people are on hand day and night, and you can reach them from your account whenever you need them.
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