ADHD Dating USA: Meet American Singles Who Get It

ADHD dating in the USA, with people who get it from the first message. More than a third of ADHD Singles members are American, from California and New York to Texas, Florida, Georgia, Ohio, Arizona and Massachusetts. Set your distance and see who is near you.

Millions of American adults, many diagnosed late

ADHD is common among American adults. The CDC estimated that in 2023 about 15.5 million US adults, six in every hundred, had a current ADHD diagnosis, and that about half of them were diagnosed as adults. So if you only found out recently, or you are still wondering, you are far from alone, and plenty of the people you meet here will have been on the same road.

Who you will meet in the USA

American members are younger than the site as a whole. People in their late twenties to early forties make up most of the US membership, which makes it a good place to meet someone at the stage of building a life rather than rebuilding one. There are members in their fifties and sixties too, and you set the age range you want.

Spread across a big country

California and New York have the most members, and the rest are spread across the South, the Midwest and the Northeast. In a country this size, a specialist site will not put someone on every block, so set a realistic distance and be open to a drive. Many members will happily go an hour or two for someone who understands them, and a video call first saves anyone a wasted trip.

Date ideas that work with ADHD

American cities and towns are full of good ADHD dates: a farmers market, a minor league ballgame where you can talk between innings, a hike to a lookout, mini golf, a food hall where you can graze, a bookstore with a café. Avoid the two-hour dinner with nothing else going on for a first meeting. Our ADHD first date ideas have more.

Prices in dollars

Classic membership covers browsing and your daily matches, with a set number of messages each day. Members in the USA see VIP and VIP Plus in US dollars, and the 12-month plans are one payment that does not renew. Every plan is on the pricing page.

Support beyond dating

CHADD, the US national ADHD organisation, has information for adults with ADHD and for their partners, and a doctor or licensed clinician can talk you through assessment and treatment. If ADHD is affecting a relationship, our guide to ADHD and relationships and the one on dating a man with ADHD are good starting points.

Other options in the USA

Hiki started in New York and is the best-known app for neurodivergent people; Hinge is the big no-swipe app. See ADHD Singles vs Hiki and ADHD Singles vs Hinge. Know someone across the Atlantic? Read ADHD dating in the UK.