Comparisons
Find the Dating App That Fits Your Brain
Fair side-by-sides with the apps ADHD daters ask us about most: what each does well, and who each one suits.
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Most people with ADHD try a few dating apps before settling on one, and the ones that come up most are the same three. Hiki is the largest app for neurodivergent people, with its roots in the autistic community. Mattr is a London app that launched for people with autism and ADHD and now welcomes a wider alternative crowd. Hinge is the mainstream no-swipe app many people try first. Each page below puts ADHD Singles beside one of them, says plainly what the other app does well and ends with who each one suits.
The one thing ADHD Singles offers that none of them does is a site where ADHD itself is the common ground. The pages explain when that matters and when another app might suit you better.
Pick a comparison
- ADHD Singles vs Hiki
The biggest neurodivergent app, autism-rooted and friendship-friendly, against a site built around ADHD.
- ADHD Singles vs Mattr
A London app for neurodivergent and alternative singles, against an ADHD site across the UK and the USA.
- ADHD Singles vs Hinge
The big no-swipe app for relationships, against a site where ADHD is understood from the start.
Which app suits you best
If you are autistic as well as, or instead of, having ADHD, and you like friendship and dating kept separate, look at Hiki. If you live in London and like a broader creative and alternative community, Mattr is worth a look. If you want the biggest pool of people looking for relationships, Hinge has it. And if you want everyone you meet to understand ADHD, with a short list of matches near you each day, free ID checks and help whenever you need it, that is ADHD Singles.
Try a few, then trust your instincts
Every page sets out what each app says about itself in its own words, side by side with what you get here, so you can weigh them up in a few minutes. Apps change often, so treat each page as a starting point and try anything you are considering for yourself. Our guide to the best ADHD dating sites and apps covers a few more options, including Bumble. For our own site, see how it works and pricing.